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very purpose of marriage. Not only the two families but also the persons concerned to know each other and understand fairly well that the union are going to enter is ever lasting and their life to become enjoyable rather than a burden. This holy bondage not only restricts to the spouses only but also extends to their children and their relations on both sides. It is understood that marriages are decided in the heaven but are to be worked out on the earth with all senses enshrined in the human beings. Under no circumstances the marriages should not be attempted on emotional factor, any sort of greed like dowry, external appearance, social status etc. which may fade away and evaporate after some time and it may turned out to be utmost dilemma and night mare ever hanging over their heads like a dagger. In such situations, whole family including children suffers and marriage becomes more a curse than a blessing. Even if either of the spouses makes it a compromise for any reason whatsoever, it is not smooth going and bitterness ever remain and very much reflected in their day-to-day behavior. Let it be known that marriage is a sacred social institution involved over centuries together and a binding force for not only two persons concerned but also completely human society. People who have a happy married life are divinely favored and Almighty God has showered ultimate fortune upon them. It is a fact that a happily married couple can face the hustles and tussles of life so easily as if it is simply a walk through. I wish might God bring happiness of married life to every body. It is only possible if we understand the real meaning of institute of marriage in its right perspective and under take these tasks with full understanding and maturity of both groom and bride. Let us not indulge in haste like marrying children in their infancy and age utter ignorance. Beware of the fact that child marriage may bring a total damage not only to two concerned but also to their respective families. Let us hope every body understand the importance of marriage and solemnize it when it is a right age and both are physically and mentally well prepared to take responsibilities following this important mile stone in the life. Let us build a happy family, a prosperous society and enjoyable life. |
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